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Together To Gather - Conversation Card Deck
Introducing a two-deck conversation card set designed to rebuild the reflexes for genuine conversation in an increasingly isolated world. As screens grow more convenient and solitude becomes easier to choose, we're losing something vital: the ability to connect deeply with the people right in front of us. Research shows that despite being more "connected" than ever, loneliness is at epidemic levels, and our conversation skills—the foundation of real community—are quietly eroding. Together To Gather offers a different path forward.
Together To Gather is a research-backed framework that teaches you how to activate the three essential elements of meaningful connection: genuine curiosity, empathetic listening, and the courage to go deeper. Born from the creators’ almost two-decades of work with leaders, communities, and organizations struggling to connect across differences, these cards translate The Convergence Method into something you can use right now, at your next gathering.
What makes this different:
You're learning how to truly listen, how to share your own story in ways that draw people in, and how to create the kind of conversations that people remember long after they leave your table. Whether you're facilitating a team meeting, hosting a dinner party, or simply trying to move past small talk with people you care about, these cards give you a proven structure for building connection that lasts.
Designed for groups of 4-12, co-created with longtime partners, &Human and The Improv Effect, and rooted in behavioral psychology and relational design, Together To Gather helps you reclaim what technology can't replace: the experience of being truly seen and heard by another human being.
Because as isolation becomes increasingly profitable for technologies designed to commodify your attention, connection becomes the most radical choice you can make.
What you'll receive: 110 cards across two complementary decks: Story Starters (designed to help you share your experiences in compelling ways) and Conversation Deepeners (designed to help you ask better questions and listen with genuine curiosity). Plus an instruction guide for using both decks together to create meaningful conversations in any setting.
Introducing a two-deck conversation card set designed to rebuild the reflexes for genuine conversation in an increasingly isolated world. As screens grow more convenient and solitude becomes easier to choose, we're losing something vital: the ability to connect deeply with the people right in front of us. Research shows that despite being more "connected" than ever, loneliness is at epidemic levels, and our conversation skills—the foundation of real community—are quietly eroding. Together To Gather offers a different path forward.
Together To Gather is a research-backed framework that teaches you how to activate the three essential elements of meaningful connection: genuine curiosity, empathetic listening, and the courage to go deeper. Born from the creators’ almost two-decades of work with leaders, communities, and organizations struggling to connect across differences, these cards translate The Convergence Method into something you can use right now, at your next gathering.
What makes this different:
You're learning how to truly listen, how to share your own story in ways that draw people in, and how to create the kind of conversations that people remember long after they leave your table. Whether you're facilitating a team meeting, hosting a dinner party, or simply trying to move past small talk with people you care about, these cards give you a proven structure for building connection that lasts.
Designed for groups of 4-12, co-created with longtime partners, &Human and The Improv Effect, and rooted in behavioral psychology and relational design, Together To Gather helps you reclaim what technology can't replace: the experience of being truly seen and heard by another human being.
Because as isolation becomes increasingly profitable for technologies designed to commodify your attention, connection becomes the most radical choice you can make.
What you'll receive: 110 cards across two complementary decks: Story Starters (designed to help you share your experiences in compelling ways) and Conversation Deepeners (designed to help you ask better questions and listen with genuine curiosity). Plus an instruction guide for using both decks together to create meaningful conversations in any setting.

