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Build connection in any conversation

With guided prompts and thoughtfully designed questions, our Betting on Us conversation card deck builds your reflexes for opening pathways of understanding.

Being magnetic in conversation isn't just something you’re born with—it's a set of skills you can build.

Grounding

Open the conversations people want to have but don’t know how to begin.

Relational Gravity

Build trust through question architecture so that connection naturally holds.

Activated Influence

Scale connection across teams, departments, communities, and systems.

The Philosophy Behind The Cards & Questions

Co-created by Lia James, the Betting on Us connection card deck is built on the simple truth that connection can’t be left to chance; you have to invite it with the right questions.

We leverage the deck as part of The Convergence Method, a research-backed framework for designing experiences every voice leaves a mark and ideas take root.

Each card and question is a chance to create space for people to be human together.

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Use the deck to build connection
across any gathering…

Professional

  • Team Meetings

  • Workshops & Trainings

  • Offsites & Retreats

  • Board Meetings

Community

  • Social Gatherings

  • Meetups & Networking

  • Conferences & Summits

  • Placemaking Initiatives

Creative

  • Collaborative Spaces

  • Brainstorming

  • Storytelling Circles

  • Discussion Groups

Never leave connection to chance again

Betting on Us is a connection card deck built for the moments where connection matters most. Each question and prompt is a chance to shift a room, to turn ordinary interactions into moments that linger.